Being yourself

 

To be yourself is to know when to say something and when to say nothing.

You don't always have to say something about everything.

To be yourself is to be a person capable of thoughtful judgment.

Don't be judgmental

"Don't be judgmental" is more difficult than "don't judge".
More than the act of judging, it's the attitude of being judgmental that causes a breach between us and God, between us and others.
More than just refraining from judgment, it means to cultivate a heart that recognizes the truth that all of us are pilgrims on a journey. There are ups and downs. The important thing is to continue the journey.
More than the negative "don't", it is an invitation to believe that we're all in this together. When one is left behind, all of us suffer.