Change

The thing about wanting to control everything is that it is only an illusion. It will never happen. So to invest all our energies and time on it is like wanting to catch a whirlwind.
The only thing we have control over is our self. Yet, how many people do take this seriously? So they spend their time trying to arrange and re-arrange everything outside of them in order to create the perfect world, the perfect relationship, the perfect job, the perfect situation. Some of them end up disillusioned and skeptical. Some of them become controlled by "control". Some of them compromise, begging or bargaining to appease the void that is within, but until when?
The real key to change is "to let the change begin in me".