When we look with faith at our experiences, we know (at least in our heads) that everything falls into place in God's plan, even the unpleasant ones that make us suffer. But it is different for one who suffers, because there is a big distance between what we know in our mind and what we feel in our hearts. We just want to end the pain because we feel we do not have anymore energy. We are sapped of even our good resolutions when we really find ourselves in the depths.
It is then that we need to be kind to ourself. Be aware of what we feel, admit it, without laying any blame or guilt in ourself. Sometimes what happens to us could be a consequence of a bad choice of ours, but there is no use blaming ourselves. Just admit the pain, cry as much as you want to. When it subsides, make a choice just to continue to live just for this moment. Most importantly, consciously ask God's help, without being in a hurry. Ask God to bless you because even if you are not aware of it, you are moving on.
It is then that we need to be kind to ourself. Be aware of what we feel, admit it, without laying any blame or guilt in ourself. Sometimes what happens to us could be a consequence of a bad choice of ours, but there is no use blaming ourselves. Just admit the pain, cry as much as you want to. When it subsides, make a choice just to continue to live just for this moment. Most importantly, consciously ask God's help, without being in a hurry. Ask God to bless you because even if you are not aware of it, you are moving on.
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